Love does not consist of gazing at each other, but in looking together in the same direction.”- Antoine De Saint-Exupéry
Are you in the relationship of your wildest dreams, or existing in a half-life?
Maybe you’re UNDECIDED. Maybe you should RUN FOR THE HILLS!
Without a road map, we SETTLE, and lose ourselves, then wake up years later wondering where our life went.
IS THIS YOU?
- Maybe you’ve found your forever person and are scribbling odes to love every moment you’re apart. If so, keep it balanced; don’t throw self-love out of the window.
- Don’t put them in charge of your happiness (that’s your job).
Beyond that, live it large, Marj, waste no time, dive right in, love, laugh, and give it all you’ve got!
- Do you have niggling doubts and need CLARITY on WHAT NORMAL LOOKS LIKE? There’s a difference between someone who leaves smelly socks under the bed and the one who packs a roll of duct tape, an axe, and some trash bags in the trunk and says they’re off to a flute lesson.
- Do you believe that the disastrous relationship you’re suffering through will work?
Are you desperate for confirmation that it’ll be ok, despite him/her drinking themselves into oblivion, taking a concoction of drugs that would baffle modern science, compulsively gambling, having sex with the masses or failing to sustain a job for more than a day?
Many have stayed in this situation at one time or another; hoping against hope, rather than facing the terror of being alone.
We’re here to give you a set of tools that removes the pain, raises your self-esteem, and makes happy, healthy relationships effortless.
HERE ARE 7 QUESTIONS TO HELP YOU IDENTIFY WHAT’S REALLY GOING ON
Do you make each other happy?
If you answered yes……you got this! Wahooooo!!
If not, ask yourself, ‘Why are you in the relationship?’
Do you share the same values?
Sharing the Same values means you’re likely to respect one another.
If you have wildly differing values, you’re likely to have arguments that can't easily be resolved, because you don’t resonate on the same frequency.
Do you love your partner for no reason other than who they are?
Altruistic love focuses on giving rather than getting.
At best, two people coming together to be more than they are alone, grow in the relationship, and become fulfilled
This happens when each partner is emotionally healthy and able to love themselves first. The relationship becomes a place where each has plenty to give, rather than operating from a place of need.
Does your partner love you for who you are rather than trying to change you?
An indication that your partner loves you for who you are, is they delight in you; embracing the good, and helping you surmount obstacles, without contempt disguised as criticism.
Can you imagine how your relationship with your partner might look five years from now?
Will you have grown together?
How will life look regarding friends, family, personal growth, travel, adventure, laughter, physical activities, and emotional fulfillment?
Will you thrive or battle over breakfast?
Is your partner emotionally available?
If you find it important to communicate at a deep level, and their idea of deep conversation is the benefit of switching brands of laundry detergent, you may lack fulfillment.
No one is perfect, and no one can be everything to another. However, if you are poles apart in emotional communication, this can cause rifts.
Sometimes we instinctively know whether to stay or run.
If you know to stay, does this mean it’s going to be right forever? Nope, sometimes relationships are here to teach us invaluable lessons and take us to the next level. Sometimes they’re right for right now.
Sometimes you know they’re right, and they succeed against the odds because there’s a burning desire from both sides to make it happen.
Trust your gut instinct (be aware that unhealthy relationships can be like drugs, enabling us to avoid the necessary work of self-love).
All relationships take work, and the best ones often take the most work!
Love is as elusive as those incredible journeys to the edge of the earth. We don’t succeed until we’ve gone the distance alone and bumped into ourselves” - Skye Baloo Carnegie
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Altruistic love focuses on giving rather than getting.
Remember – No one is perfect, and no one can be everything to another.
Trust your gut instinct (be aware that unhealthy relationships can be like drugs, enabling us to avoid the necessary work of self-love)
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Truly understand, connect, and have the relationship you always dreamed.
Love does not consist of gazing at each other, but in looking together in the same direction.”- Antoine De Saint-Exupéry
ARE YOU IN THE RELATIONSHIP OF YOUR WILDEST DREAMS, OR EXISTING IN A HALF-LIFE?
Maybe you’re UNDECIDED. Maybe you should RUN FOR THE HILLS!
Without a road map, we SETTLE, and lose ourselves, then wake up years later wondering where our life went.
IS THIS YOU?
- Maybe you’ve found your forever person and are scribbling odes to love every moment you’re apart. If so, keep it balanced; don’t throw self-love out of the window.
- Don’t put them in charge of your happiness (that’s your job).
Beyond that, live it large, Marj, waste no time, dive right in, love, laugh, and give it all you’ve got!
- Do you have niggling doubts and need CLARITY on WHAT NORMAL LOOKS LIKE? There’s a difference between someone who leaves smelly socks under the bed and the one who packs a roll of duct tape, an axe, and some trash bags in the trunk and says they’re off to a flute lesson.
- Do you believe that the disastrous relationship you’re suffering through will work?
Are you desperate for confirmation that it’ll be ok, despite him/her drinking themselves into oblivion, taking a concoction of drugs that would baffle modern science, compulsively gambling, having sex with the masses or failing to sustain a job for more than a day?
Many have stayed in this situation at one time or another; hoping against hope, rather than facing the terror of being alone.
We’re here to give you a set of tools that removes the pain, raises your self-esteem, and makes happy, healthy relationships effortless.
RECOMMENDED FOR YOU
DOWNLOAD OUR FREE ADHD Relationship Survival Guide
Truly understand, connect, and have the relationship you always dreamed.
HERE ARE 7 QUESTIONS TO HELP YOU IDENTIFY WHAT’S REALLY GOING ON
Do you make each other happy?
If you answered yes……you got this! Wahooooo!!
If not, ask yourself, ‘Why are you in the relationship?’
Do you share the same values?
Sharing the Same values means you’re likely to respect one another.
If you have wildly differing values, you’re likely to have arguments that can't easily be resolved, because you don’t resonate on the same frequency.
Do you love your partner for no reason other than who they are?
Altruistic love focuses on giving rather than getting.
At best, two people coming together to be more than they are alone, grow in the relationship, and become fulfilled
This happens when each partner is emotionally healthy and able to love themselves first. The relationship becomes a place where each has plenty to give, rather than operating from a place of need.
Does your partner love you for who you are rather than trying to change you?
An indication that your partner loves you for who you are, is they delight in you; embracing the good, and helping you surmount obstacles, without contempt disguised as criticism.
Can you imagine how your relationship with your partner might look five years from now?
Will you have grown together?
How will life look regarding friends, family, personal growth, travel, adventure, laughter, physical activities, and emotional fulfillment?
Will you thrive or battle over breakfast?
Is your partner emotionally available?
If you find it important to communicate at a deep level, and their idea of deep conversation is the benefit of switching brands of laundry detergent, you may lack fulfillment.
No one is perfect, and no one can be everything to another. However, if you are poles apart in emotional communication, this can cause rifts.
Sometimes we instinctively know whether to stay or run.
If you know to stay, does this mean it’s going to be right forever? Nope, sometimes relationships are here to teach us invaluable lessons and take us to the next level. Sometimes they’re right for right now.
Sometimes you know they’re right, and they succeed against the odds because there’s a burning desire from both sides to make it happen.
Trust your gut instinct (be aware that unhealthy relationships can be like drugs, enabling us to avoid the necessary work of self-love).
All relationships take work, and the best ones often take the most work!
Love is as elusive as those incredible journeys to the edge of the earth. We don’t succeed until we’ve gone the distance alone and bumped into ourselves”- Skye Baloo Carnegie
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