The toxic behaviors were there before you decided to enter into relationships with them. The signs were there. You may have chosen to look the other way, but the signs were there” - P.A. Speers
HOW TO REWIRE YOUR ‘PICKER’
We all have them, so-called faulty pickers that have us running after the crazy Romeos and Juliettes.
It’s as if we have ‘PSYCHO WANTED’ branded on our foreheads.
EXCEPT THERE’S NOTHING FAULTY WITH YOUR PICKER AT ALL
It’s working just fine and always has done. It’s done a superb job of finding those who are drawn to your addiction to hurt, lack, rejection, absence, pain, and other traumas.
It seeks out the ones whose baggage leaves them, unable love, you in the way you desperately need to be loved.
We pick the cast of our lives.
‘If you do what you’ve always done, you’ll get what you’ve always got’Jessie Potter
Once we see this pattern, we can stop making the same mistakes.
We get to shut down the drama of PATTERN REPEATS which has controlled our lives until now.
As we leave the GREAT THEATRE PRODUCTION of our lives, complete with STAGE, CAST, and SOUNDTRACK, we begin to LIVE AT LAST!
TO AVOID PSYCHOS, YOU NEED CLARITY
To quit hurting, you need to know how you’re getting into bad relationships in the first place.
What patterns are you repeating? What abandonment, rejections, hurt, pain, and areas of lack are you seeking to relive at any cost?
We all have different breaking points. For some, it’s not feeling valued. For others, it’s being cheated on. Or being hit. Or playing second fiddle to booze, gambling, drugs, opiate addiction, workaholism, etc.
Some have such weak boundaries that they stay until they’re mentally and physically broken.
It doesn’t matter where you are, or how much you’ve been hurt, there is a way out.
The more abuse abandonment and neglect in your life, the stronger you’ve become to make it through (however falteringly). It takes guts, determination, and sheer will to survive.
Know you aren’t weak, not a bit. You’re a fighter. You’re reading this and making it happen. We’ll get there together.
Look at the patterns that derive from childhood. Your parents. How do/did they relate to one another? What were you seeking from either of them that you didn’t get?
How has this translated into your intimate relationships? What are the recurring themes you can identify?
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The toxic behaviors were there before you decided to enter into relationships with them. The signs were there. You may have chosen to look the other way, but the signs were there” - P.A. Speers
HOW TO REWIRE YOUR ‘PICKER’
We all have them, so-called faulty pickers that have us running after the crazy Romeos and Juliettes.
It’s as if we have ‘PSYCHO WANTED’ branded on our foreheads.
EXCEPT THERE’S NOTHING FAULTY WITH YOUR PICKER AT ALL
It’s working just fine and always has done. It’s done a superb job of finding those who are drawn to your addiction to hurt, lack, rejection, absence, pain, and other traumas.
It seeks out the ones whose baggage leaves them unable to love you in the way you desperately need to be loved.
We pick the cast of our lives.
‘If you do what you’ve always done, you’ll get what you’ve always got’Jessie Potter
Once we see this pattern, we can stop making the same mistakes.
We get to shut down the drama of PATTERN REPEATS which has controlled our lives until now.
As we leave the GREAT THEATRE PRODUCTION of our lives, complete with STAGE, CAST, and SOUNDTRACK, we begin to LIVE AT LAST!
RECOMMENDED FOR YOU
DOWNLOAD OUR FREE ADHD Relationship Survival Guide
Truly understand, connect, and have the relationship you always dreamed.
TO AVOID PSYCHOS, YOU NEED CLARITY
To quit hurting, you need to know how you’re getting into bad relationships in the first place.
What patterns are you repeating? What abandonment, rejections, hurt, pain, and areas of lack are you seeking to relive at any cost?
We all have different breaking points. For some, it’s not feeling valued. For others, it’s being cheated on. Or being hit. Or playing second fiddle to booze, gambling, drugs, opiate addiction, workaholism, etc.
Some have such weak boundaries that they stay until they’re mentally and physically broken.
It doesn’t matter where you are, or how much you’ve been hurt, there is a way out.
The more abuse abandonment and neglect in your life, the stronger you’ve become to make it through (however falteringly). It takes guts, determination, and sheer will to survive.
Know you aren’t weak, not a bit. You’re a fighter. You’re reading this and making it happen. We’ll get there together.
Look at the patterns that derive from childhood. Your parents. How do/did they relate to one another? What were you seeking from either of them that you didn’t get?
How has this translated into your intimate relationships? What are the recurring themes you can identify?
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